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Monday, March 20, 2006

Back to Normal

One of my favorite memories of being broked up with is from Ashland. In that weird time period between my averring that there was no way it could possibly be over, her subsequent magical job of talking me into leaving and my actual departure, there was a few days of maudlin drinking in bars.
The Wild Goose did a lot of what I wanted to have done for me in those couple of days. It had a couple of pool tables, lots of good feeling-sorry-for-yourself country on the jukebox, and an interesting crowd.
This was on the edge of town, where actual people lived. Not college students, tourists or those who had relocated from California to enjoy the unfettered life. No, these were the people who worked at Safeway, or the Shop n' Kart, if you didn't have a union gig, and still had the pleasure of paying the 'prepared food tax', which meant not only a bigger bill at a real restaurant, but even chipping in a bit more for a Slurpee. Or a Meximelt from Taco Bell. In theory, this tax caused us to have far better services, like not drinking the same awful water that Medford drinks.
A fair amount of true rednecks drank there, and there was a small bunch of them in there one gray Sunday afternoon. I was shooting a game of pool to myself, and they were just near enough by that I got involved, at points, in their conversation.
One of them so strongly resembled one of my Jewish Redneck step-uncles, that I just had to ask whether or not he was related to any of the family from Les Schwab country. I don't really know what he thought about that: there's lots of families all over Christendom who haven't admitted that they were Jewish since the Inquisition, and have had centuries upon centuries of inter-marriage since. In any case, we found other conversation topics.
I was working on a crossword puzzle at a table nearby. I was just looped enough to ask one of them for a hint on one of the clues:
"Well," he said, "You need an apostrophe to show the posessive..."
"Dude, " I said, "They don't use those in crosswords."
Then, at some unheard-at-least-to-me cue, everyone in the main part of the bar stood up. As one, they began moving all the tables and chairs to the periphery of the room. I had noticed before that the Goose had Astro Turf floors, but it was hardly the only place I'd seen that be the case. As all these people continued rearranging the furniture, the outlines of the bigger picture emerged: there were little cups nested in the floor.
The entire bar was a miniature golf course, albeit without windmills or big cartoony traps for your balls, but a real live course, all the same. They all got tiny clubs and went right to it.
I laughed my ass off all the way back to Normal Avenue, where I lived. The street was so named for the normal school (which is to say, an 1800's school for teachers) that had been nearby, once. A few days later, I caught a bus in the Safeway parking lot, and was on my way back to my beloved Portland.
The first person I saw off the bus was my friend Daphna, who hadn't seen the hideous bleach job that my girlfriend had insisted I inflict upon my poor scalp.
"What did they do to you?", she asked.
"They bleached my brain...Apparently."
Apparently. Why would I have moved there otherwise?
"Yeah, well it's true what they say..." She reached up to stroke my head. "Blonde hair and blue eyes really do go together."
Sorry I haven't written lately. I'll be getting back to it.



Blogger carrier said...

Hope you're doing well.

Going to Eugene for a few days the middle of next week. Be great if you could make it too.

I'll treat you to a sip of Makers...

6:17 PM  
Blogger Ju-ju bees said...

you should come to eugene. i'm pretty sure I'll be ther wed-fri. mom's gonna call tu madre 2nite.

12:07 PM  
Blogger disco boy said...

billiards, crossword puzzles... you mean to tell me you didn't get down with the mini-golf? enough whiskey and i play simultaneous shuffleboard and trivia, while throwing darts. sounds like my sorta place.

8:34 PM  
Blogger cats dig me said...

I believe I have convinced the proprietor of the local discount smoke shop to special order me some Havana Ovals. I am a happy little clam.

10:17 PM  
Blogger crallspace said...

I like redneck bars in remote towns like Alpine, ORE... near Corvallis.

Hey, i noticed you like Microstoria... they are awesome! I have heard of To Roccoco Rot, and i know that half of Microstoria is Markus Popp of Oval.

Anyway... always good to find people who like good music... and people in my own state.

7:02 PM  
Blogger Erudite Redneck said...

12:06 PM  
Blogger Jacq said...

I meant to ask you awhile ago how your mom is doing. I was having some computer issues and wasn't able to get to your blog. (It's those dang Nazi's again...)

Hey Cats, have nazi's been invading your blog's comments recently? Your comment management is to the extreme! I hope I never have to do that. That would really suck.

12:06 PM  
Blogger cats dig me said...

My comment management over at hollanderspace has been hijacked by...well I really don't know who, might as well be reptillian space monkeys. I am the only one who is allowed to simply leave a comment. Everyone else is sent to some sort of internet purgatory until I moderate and approve each damn comment.

11:28 PM  
Blogger cats dig me said...

I hate Nazi's.

Yah, especially ILLINOIS Nazi's...

11:44 PM  
Blogger Jacq said...

Ha ha, Cats, that is too funny. Okay, maybe it's horrible. And it isn't an exercise of free speech at all, is it, if it's a "selective thing." Geez. I still tune into your blog, though. Maybe you should just start up another one, eh? Only give a precious few the new URL and keep it off your profile. Not that that would stop anyone indefinitely. Maybe just delay for awhile.


6:00 AM  
Blogger cats dig me said...

Okay now. This is getting serious. The owner of the smoke shop/laudramat who promised to order me some Nat Sherman's has gone back on his word. All of a sudden he only speaks Korean. Two days ago his English was just fine. The only sherman product he has on the shelf is some kind of rude mini cigar. Its like trying to buy Coors in the 1970's. Rich, I'll send you the money for the smokes and postage if you'll pick some up for me. Maybe two packs will do. On the other hand maybe I will just make a damn trip to PDX on Saturday. Whats your address these days?

9:53 AM  

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